20 Best Songs About Yearning For Someone

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Yearning is one of the most powerful emotions, a mix of desire, regret, hope, and the need to reconnect with someone or something that feels out of reach. Music has always given that feeling a voice, whether the song is about a distant lover, words left unsaid, a family bond, or the ache of looking back at what has been lost.

This list of the 20 best songs about yearning for someone moves across rock, pop, soul, country, and R&B. Some of these songs whisper their pain, while others turn it into a huge vocal or instrumental statement. Linda Ronstadt, John Waite, Pearl Jam, Bruce Springsteen, the Beatles, Glen Campbell, and the Righteous Brothers all approach longing from different directions. What connects them is the feeling that something important is missing and the heart still wants it back.

# 20 – Long Long Time – Linda Ronstadt

Few tracks capture the agony of unreciprocated devotion quite like Linda Ronstadt’s “Long Long Time.” The song appeared on her 1970 album Silk Purse. Gary White wrote the song, and Elliot Mazer produced Ronstadt’s recording. Her performance moves from quiet heartbreak into a soaring display of vulnerability. The arrangement gives her voice plenty of room to carry the emotional weight. The single reached number 25 on the Billboard Hot 100.

# 19 – Everything I Own – Bread

Bread’s “Everything I Own” is a beautiful example of how restraint can make a song hurt even more. David Gates wrote and produced the track for the album Baby I’m-a Want You. The acoustic setting and gentle vocal keep the emotion direct and uncluttered. Gates later explained that he wrote the song in memory of his father, giving its loss, gratitude, and wish to have someone back an even deeper meaning. Gates never oversings it, which is a big part of why the record still feels so personal. “Everything I Own” reached number five on the Billboard Hot 100 in 1972.

# 18 – Missing You – John Waite

John Waite turned denial into one of the great pop-rock songs of the 1980s with “Missing You.” Released in 1984 on No Brakes, the song was written by Waite, Mark Leonard, and Charles Sandford. John Waite, Gary Gersh, and David Thoener produced the recording. The polished arrangement never hides the tension in Waite’s vocal. He keeps insisting that he is not missing anyone while every part of the song says otherwise. “Missing You” reached number one on the Billboard Hot 100.

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# 17 – For Emily, Whenever I May Find Her – Simon & Garfunkel

“For Emily, Whenever I May Find Her” appeared on Simon & Garfunkel’s 1966 album Parsley, Sage, Rosemary and Thyme. Paul Simon wrote the song, while Art Garfunkel handles the lead vocal. Bob Johnston produced the original studio recording. The sparse setting lets Garfunkel’s voice create nearly all of the song’s atmosphere. This is one of Simon & Garfunkel fans’ favorite songs. It always comes up whenever I ask a friend to name one of their favorites, because there is really something special about this one.

# 16 – Black – Pearl Jam

“Black” is one of the emotional centerpieces of Pearl Jam’s 1991 debut album Ten. The song was recorded at London Bridge Studios in Seattle and produced by Pearl Jam and Rick Parashar. Stone Gossard wrote the music, and Eddie Vedder wrote the lyrics. Jeff Ament’s bass and Mike McCready’s lead guitar deepen the feeling without crowding the song. Vedder’s vocal grows from wounded reflection into one of the most painful performances on the album. Few rock songs capture the feeling of knowing someone is gone while still loving them this intensely.

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# 15 – Melody for a Memory – Hall & Oates

“Melody for a Memory” is one of the deep cuts that makes Hall & Oates’ 1978 album Along the Red Ledge worth exploring beyond the singles. John Oates wrote the song and handles the lead vocal. David Foster produced the album, giving the track a polished but soulful setting. The harmonies and shifting arrangement make the music feel like a memory unfolding in real time. This is a song about how music can hold onto a relationship long after the moment itself has passed. That idea makes it a natural fit on a list about yearning.

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# 14 – Heartbreaker – Grand Funk

“Heartbreaker” comes from Grand Funk Railroad’s raw 1969 debut album On Time. Terry Knight produced the album at Cleveland Recording Company. Mark Farner turns the pain of a broken heart into a heavy blues-rock performance. The power-trio arrangement keeps everything direct, loud, and emotional. I loved this band growing up in the 70s. Being able to interview them multiple times as editor of this site has been one of the greatest joys of my writing career.

# 13 – The Tracks of My Tears – The Miracles

The Miracles’ “The Tracks of My Tears” is one of the great songs about hiding heartbreak behind a public smile. Smokey Robinson, Pete Moore, and Marv Tarplin wrote the song. Robinson produced the 1965 recording for Motown’s Tamla label. The upbeat groove makes the sadness underneath it hit even harder. Robinson’s vocal sounds controlled on the surface, but the pain is there in every line. That contrast between appearance and reality is what gives the song its lasting power.

# 12 – Have You Seen Her – The Chi-Lites

The Chi-Lites’ “Have You Seen Her” turns the confusion of lost love into one of the defining soul records of the early 1970s. Eugene Record and Barbara Acklin wrote the song, and Record produced it. The track appeared on the 1971 album (For God’s Sake) Give More Power to the People. Its spoken passages make the loneliness feel conversational and painfully real. The group’s smooth harmonies give that sadness a beautiful setting. “Have You Seen Her” reached number three on the Billboard Hot 100 and number one on the R&B chart.

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# 11 – Leader of the Band – Dan Fogelberg

Dan Fogelberg’s “Leader of the Band” shifts yearning away from romance and toward family, memory, and gratitude. Released on his 1981 album The Innocent Age, the song was written as a tribute to his father, Lawrence Fogelberg. His father was a musician and band director whose influence shaped Dan’s life. The quiet acoustic setting keeps the focus on the words and the relationship behind them. There is love in the song, but there is also the ache of time moving forward. Fogelberg turns that private family feeling into something almost anyone can understand.

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# 10 – The Living Years – Mike + The Mechanics

Mike + The Mechanics’ “The Living Years” is built around words left unsaid between fathers and sons. Mike Rutherford and B.A. Robertson wrote the song from deeply personal experience. Christopher Neil and Rutherford produced the recording for the 1988 album Living Years. Paul Carrack delivers the lead vocal with exactly the restraint the song needs. The track was recorded at The Farm in Surrey and grew into a worldwide hit. It reached number one on the Billboard Hot 100 in 1989.

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# 9 – Empty Sky – Bruce Springsteen

Bruce Springsteen’s “Empty Sky” captures the silence and absence left behind by the September 11 attacks. The song appeared on his 2002 album The Rising. It was recorded at Southern Tracks in Atlanta and produced by Brendan O’Brien. The arrangement is spare enough to keep the grief close to the surface. Springsteen uses the image of an empty skyline to turn public tragedy into something deeply personal. The yearning here is not romantic; it is the need to understand loss that cannot be undone.

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# 8 – Red Sun – Lindsey Buckingham and Christine McVie

“Red Sun” comes from the 2017 collaborative album Lindsey Buckingham Christine McVie. Christine McVie’s warm vocal sits beautifully against Lindsey Buckingham’s guitar work and layered harmonies. The sessions took place at The Village Studios in Los Angeles. Fleetwood Mac bandmates Mick Fleetwood and John McVie also played on the project. The track has a bright surface, but there is a sense of distance and reflection underneath it. That mixture of warmth and longing is what makes the song work so well.

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# 7 – Romeo and Juliet – Dire Straits

Dire Straits’ “Romeo and Juliet” takes the old story of star-crossed lovers and drops it into a modern broken relationship. Mark Knopfler wrote the song for the band’s 1980 album Making Movies. They recorded it at the Power Station in New York City, with Jimmy Iovine and Knopfler producing it. Knopfler’s resonator guitar gives the opening an instantly recognizable sound. His conversational vocals make the heartbreak feel less theatrical and more like something that really happened. Few songs capture the moment when one person still believes in a love that the other has already left behind.

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# 6 – No One Like You – Scorpions

Scorpions’ “No One Like You” turns romantic separation into a huge hard-rock anthem. Rudolf Schenker wrote the music, Klaus Meine wrote the lyrics, and Dieter Dierks produced the track for the 1982 album Blackout. Meine’s soaring vocals and Matthias Jabs’ lead guitar make the longing feel enormous. Let me say something about Cologne, because it is one of my favorite cities that I have visited in Europe. The food is spectacular, and the bridge and cathedral are both mesmerizing sights everyone should see. Okay, sorry, back to the music, because this song still sounds absolutely fantastic.

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# 5 – Baby Come Back – Player

This one always brings me back to high school. Player released “Baby Come Back” in 1977 as the lead single from the band’s self-titled debut album. Peter Beckett and J.C. Crowley wrote the song, while Dennis Lambert and Brian Potter produced it. The smooth harmonies and polished pop-rock arrangement make the heartbreak go down easy. Underneath that smooth sound is a straight plea for another chance. The song reached number one on the Billboard Hot 100 in early 1978.

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# 4 – Without You – Badfinger

Written by Pete Ham and Tom Evans, Badfinger’s “Without You” first appeared on the band’s 1970 album No Dice. The original recording is less grand than some of the famous covers that followed, which makes its sadness feel especially exposed. The melody carries a sense of resignation from the opening moments. Ham and Evans wrote a song about separation that sounds almost impossible to accept. The vulnerability is what gives the record its power. It is a simple idea delivered with absolutely no emotional escape route.

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# 3 – Yesterday – The Beatles

“Yesterday” remains one of the most recognizable songs The Beatles ever recorded. Paul McCartney wrote the song, which carries the Lennon-McCartney songwriting credit. It appeared on the 1965 album Help! and was recorded at Abbey Road. McCartney performs the track with acoustic guitar and a string quartet arranged by George Martin. The emotion is simple: the shock of realizing a happier past is gone. That simplicity is why the song still connects so quickly.

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# 2 – Wichita Lineman – Glen Campbell

Glen Campbell’s “Wichita Lineman” is one of the great songs about distance, work, loneliness, and love. Jimmy Webb wrote the song, and Campbell recorded it in 1968. Al De Lory produced the recording at Capitol Studios in Los Angeles. Campbell’s calm vocal makes the longing feel even deeper because he never forces the emotion. The orchestral arrangement creates a huge open space around the character in the song. Few records have ever made loneliness sound this beautiful.

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# 1 – Unchained Melody – The Righteous Brothers

“Unchained Melody” is the perfect song to close a list about yearning because longing is built into every second of the performance. Alex North wrote the music and Hy Zaret wrote the lyrics for the 1955 film Unchained. The Righteous Brothers recorded their famous version in 1965. Bobby Hatfield handles the lead vocal, turning the song into a showcase of control, range, and pure emotion. The performance keeps building until the final section feels almost overwhelming. More than half a century later, it is still one of the defining recordings of romantic longing.

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